To be or Not to be?

                                  To Be or Not to Be?

Who says I act that, Way?

By: Brooke Smith

When someone says to you statements like these, “Stop acting that way that’s wrong, or You should act more mature, you act like your mother”.  What is it that you believe that there correct about your individual actions. Or what is it that makes you not believe in your own way of life and dictate that theirs is better or more efficient to society? Could it not be that maybe they lack areas that you are proficient in and the only other way to fill their void is to push derogatory statements against you so they’re not inside their heads dealing with themselves. Could that be one possibility?

My whole 41 years of life, now (43 years) I have catered to how people thought I should act or how I should be filtered in my choice of words. (These are not bad words I just am firm on what I want out of life for the first time. Strength can be intimidating to another passerby). It is much easier, especially with ones that have insecurities to deter whatever traits you excel in to give a higher justified complex within them. I will add that doesn’t make them wrong by no means either. Thats the focus of this journey is for one to understand that what doesn’t work in another’s life might be in yours. Your norm may not be their norm, what is a good characteristic to you may not work as well in another’s. So, see the pattern. We are all individually owned and operated, and we only have one way to live and that’s for ourselves no matter how selfish it sounds at the end of the day you must be aligned and happy to help others to gain their paths that energy healing and the gift knowledge we should share. So instead of saying in return “Ya, well I’m rubber your glue quote to them. Be more open-minded about their situation and pay them a natural compliment back or offer advice on anything that deters you and back upon them in a healthy way positive way then maybe you both have an equal win! So do you choose to be or not to be happy and spread that smile as much as you can? Be Kind, and Embrace Life!